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☆ Missed the dazzling northern lights show? You might get another chance Saturday night
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-11 | by ( Ramon Sanchez | Ray Sanchez | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +6 min

Carlos Avila Gonzalez/San Francisco Chronicle/Getty Images The northern lights shine in the night sky above the Molenviergang in Aarlanderveen, the Netherlands, early May 11. Alexey Malgavko/Reuters The northern lights are seen in a rural area west of Fort Lauderdale, Florida, on Friday, May 10. Courtesy Luke Culver People photograph the northern lights from Whitley Bay, England, on May 10. Courtesy Jan Reed The northern lights glow in the night sky in Brandenburg, Germany, on May 10. Increased solar activity causes auroras that dance around Earth’s poles, known as the northern lights, or aurora borealis, and southern lights, or aurora australis.

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☆ Anti-government protests demand release of Gaza hostages ahead of Israel’s Memorial Day
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-11 | by ( Eugenia Yosef | Mohammed Tawfeeq | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +4 min

CNN —Protesters took to the streets of several cities across Israel on Saturday, demanding the release of all hostages held in Gaza ahead of Israel’s Memorial Day. Families of hostages held in Gaza also took part in anti-government protests, including in Tel Aviv, Caesarea, Rehovot, and Haifa. Many waved Israeli flags and held up signs with images of the Israeli hostages, calling on the government to bring them home alive. Israeli mounted police deploy during a rally calling for the release of hostages held in Gaza outside the defense ministry headquarters in Tel Aviv on May 11, 2024. “The UK government has been working with partners across the region to secure the release of hostages, including British nationals.

Persons: Benjamin Netanyahu, Yael Adar, Tamir Adar, Tamir, ” Adar, Jack Guez, Hagit Chen, Itay Chen, “, ” Chen, Abu Obaida, Popplewell, ” Obaida, Kibbutz, Channah Peri, brother Roi Organizations: CNN — Protesters, Israel Defense Forces, Getty, Al, Brigades, Minister’s, CNN, United Locations: Israel, Gaza, Israel’s, Tel Aviv, Caesarea, Rehovot, Haifa, AFP, Kibbutz Nirim, Israeli

☆ Why Antiwar Protests Haven’t Flared Up at Black Colleges Like Morehouse
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-11 | by ( Maya King | Reid J. Epstein | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +1 min

As President Biden prepares to give graduation remarks this month at Morehouse College in Atlanta, a prestigious historically Black institution, the White House is signaling anxiety about the potential for protests over the war in Gaza. During a recent visit to Atlanta, Vice President Kamala Harris stopped to ask the Morehouse student government president about the sentiment on campus about the conflict, how students felt about Mr. Biden’s visit and what the graduating class would like to hear from him on May 19. Then, on Friday, the White House dispatched the leader of its public engagement office and one of its most senior Black officials, Stephen K. Benjamin, to the Morehouse campus for meetings to take the temperature of students, faculty members and administrators. The reasons for concern are clear: Nationwide demonstrations over the war and Mr. Biden’s approach to it have inflamed more than 60 colleges and universities, stoked tensions within the Democratic Party and created new headaches for his re-election bid.

Persons: Biden, Kamala Harris, Biden’s, Stephen K Organizations: Morehouse College, Morehouse, White House, Black, Democratic Party Locations: Atlanta, Gaza

☆ I live in a bunker with no oven or windows, but it's worth it to save $2,000 a month
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-11 | by ( Alcynna Lloyd | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

Read previewThis as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Caitlin J., 42, about her experience living in a Southern California bomb shelter. After living on the East Coast for a while, I moved back to Southern California this year. In most Southern California neighborhoods, home prices typically start in the high five to seven figures. The bomb shelter occupies about three-quarters of an acre and spans 1,100 square feet. The first couple of nights in the bomb shelter, I slept for like 12 hours.

Persons: —, Caitlin J, wasn't, Caitlin, I've, I'm, It's, homeownership Organizations: Service, Business Locations: Southern California, Long, East, California, It's, United States, RVs, —

☆ Scammers are using delivery apps like Instacart to swindle customers and delivery workers out of money
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-11 | by ( Alex Bitter | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

Read previewSome Instacart shoppers are the targets of a scam centered on gift cards. "Within 30 seconds, I got a message about buying the Vanilla Visa gift card," she said. Instacart forbids shoppers from adding gift cards to orders, a screenshot of the company policy seen by BI indicates. "Customers are not able to order gift cards through the Instacart platform or place a special request for a gift card via chat," an Instacart spokesperson told BI. AdvertisementInstacart also tells shoppers not to purchase gift cards for customers, the spokesperson added.

Persons: —, they've, Instacart, Jim, itsjwest, Heidi Bleau, Bleau Organizations: Service, Business, Walgreens, BI Locations: Massachusetts, cologne

☆ ‘We love you’: Harry plays volleyball with army veterans as he and Meghan get warm welcome in Nigeria
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-11 | by ( Stephanie Busari | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +3 min

Abuja CNN —Prince Harry joined in - but lost - a game of sitting volleyball against wounded army veterans as he and his wife Meghan were well received on the latest leg of their tour of Nigeria. After arriving at an officer’s mess late morning local time they were immediately taken to watch a sitting volleyball game. They were given scarves in the green and white colors of Nigeria as they took their seats in the arena. Megan receives flowers from a girl upon her arrival for an exhibition sitting volleyball match at Nigeria Unconquered. “Honestly, Prince Harry and Meghan’s visit to Nigeria, it means a lot to me personally,” flight sergeant Ifeoma Loveleen Nwagbo told CNN.

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☆ As a mom, I think gift cards are terrible gifts. I never have the time to book an appointment.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-11 | by ( Jenn Morson | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

It's still sitting unused in a drawer, with other gift cards that I haven't touched. "Oh, I will," I responded, thinking of the other massage gift certificate from my birthday that was still tucked in my desk drawer, gathering dust. The massage gift card from last year sits on my dresser in a pile of other plastic cards that were cluttering my purse. Well-meaning gift-givers bestow us with restaurant cards, manicure gift cards, and even more grandiose gestures such as weekend getaways. For all gift-givers looking to show their mother how much they love them with such a gift, think of it like an all-inclusive resort.

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☆ My son died on Mother's Day weekend. Sometimes I wonder how I've survived all these years.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-11 | by ( Patricia Roos | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

Mother's Day is always the second Sunday in May. I always thought he probably died the evening of May 10 — Mother's Day in 2015. Since then, Mother's Day has not been my day. It hasn't been easy to move forwardSometimes, I wonder how I've survived these last nine years. As I struggled with Alex's death, I wanted to move forward, somehow integrating his death into my significantly altered life.

Persons: Alex, They'd, I've, Patricia A, Roos Organizations: Mother's, Rutgers University Department of Sociology, Little League, Rutgers University Press Locations: Newark , NJ, Newark, Washington, Montauk, New Jersey

☆ I worked at Amazon, Tesla, SAP, Salesforce, and Meta. Here's what I do 24 hours before a big interview.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Shubhangi Goel | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

Read previewThis as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Hemant Pandey, a senior software engineer at Meta in California. Over the last seven years, I have interned at Amazon and worked full time at Tesla, SAP, Salesforce, and Meta. Over time, I have solidified an interview preparation strategy that has worked for me and one I share with juniors I mentor. This is what 24 hours before a Big Tech interview look like for me:AdvertisementRead up on past interview questionsI have found that Big Tech interviews largely follow a set pattern of processes. AdvertisementI keep the the last day light, because I don't want to be stressed during the interview or even the day before.

Persons: —, Hemant Pandey Organizations: Service, Meta, Business, Amazon, SAP, LinkedIn, Big Tech, Google Locations: California

☆ Portfolio manager names 3 under-the-radar growth stocks to buy right now
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Amala Balakrishner | In Amala-Balakrishner | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +3 min

One investor says growth stocks still offer opportunities — but it's time to get selective. "Growth stocks will continue to outperform value stocks, generally speaking. Growth stocks are expected to grow rapidly, but do not pay out dividends and are often often more expensive than so-called value stocks. When considering which stocks to buy, Coons stressed the importance of valuations. "I would stay away from growth stocks outperforming because of story and invest in those with real revenue and earnings growth."

Persons: Adam Coons, Coons, PayPal Holdings Coons, " Coons, Moody's Organizations: Winthrop Capital Management, CNBC Pro, PayPal Holdings, PayPal, C Technologies, SS Locations: Coons

☆ Netflix's 'Cooking Up Murder' tells the story of a chef who killed his girlfriend. Here's where César Román is now.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Eammon Jacobs | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

"Cooking Up Murder" tells the story of Spanish chef César Román, who murdered his girlfriend, Heidi Paz. The chef killed Paz in 2018, and he then moved to Madrid using a fake name. AdvertisementNetflix's "Cooking Up Murder" tells the story of Spanish chef César Román, who killed his girlfriend, Heidi Paz, in 2018. NetflixIn the series, Román alleges that Paz was killed by a gang in connection to a cocaine deal gone wrong. Advertisement"I cannot turn back time, something I would like more than anything in the world," Román wrote.

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Abuja, Nigeria CNN —The Duke and Duchess of Sussex landed in Nigeria on Friday, launching a three-day private visit to the West African nation, where they will meet with wounded soldiers and visit local charities, officials said. My husband was excited to jump up!” Meghan told cheering students in the school’s hall. Kola Sulaimon/AFP/Getty ImagesPrince Harry and Meghan were invited to Nigeria by the chief of defense staff, Christopher Musa, the country’s highest-ranking military official. The couple’s hosts, the Nigerian Defence Headquarters, are keen to be involved further in the Invictus Games and to be part of the wider Invictus community. Effiom Antigha, captain of Team Nigeria, told CNN last year that the games gave him a new lease on life.

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☆ Eurovision is back, but will Baby Lasagne or Nemo triumph? Your complete guide
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Rob Picheta | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +11 min

“People are like ‘OK, Sweden is the spiritual home of Eurovision’ – I see Eurovision as this moving entity,” she tells CNN. “The whole product, ABBA, is a vibe, isn’t it?”ABBA sing "Waterloo" at Eurovision 50 years ago. But ABBA are the past; Baby Lasagne, Windows95Man and Nemo – a person, not a fish – are very much the present. This year’s slim favorite is Baby Lasagne, whose arena-pounding anthem “Rim Tim Tagi Dim” describes a brain drain affecting Croatian towns. He credits his fiancée with helping him launch his career – “She’s the lasagne, and I’m just the baby,” he tells CNN.

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☆ JPMorgan says this simple 2-step, long-term investing approach allows you to maximize returns and achieve your financial goals while minimizing portfolio management headaches and costs
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( William Edwards | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

For most investors, holding just one passive global stock market fund and one passive global bond market fund over the long term is the best way to construct a portfolio, the strategists said. While some more time-consuming, complicated strategies may allow for higher returns, this approach gives investors the best all-around bang for their buck, Loeys and Wise said. Our point is instead that we believe you can achieve most, if not all of your financial objectives by following our KISS approach. Two stock funds that do this include the Vanguard Total World Stock Index Fund (VTWAX) and the SPDR Portfolio MSCI Global Stock Market ETF (SPGM). For investors who want to do more with their portfolio, Loeys and Wise suggested dedicating 80%-90% of one's portfolio to the above strategy, and using the other 10%-20% on other investments.

Persons: Jan Loeys, Alexander Wise, Wise, Joeys, Loeys Organizations: JPMorgan, Business, KISS, Index, Stock Market, Bond, Fidelity

☆ You just heard your college-bound child is getting less aid than you hoped. Now what?
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Jeanne Sahadi | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +8 min

New York CNN —The good news is your child got into college and is preparing to enroll this fall. The bad news is that you’ve just learned the aid package your child’s school is offering is much smaller than you’d hoped. Over four years of college, students can take out a total of up to $27,000. “That’s cash-flow friendly while your child is in college,” Walker said. Also, Bogardus suggests checking to see if your state offers a tuition aid plan or subsidized loan rates for educational expenses.

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☆ Your kid’s college is engulfed in protests. What should you do?
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Madeline Holcombe | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +9 min

Whatever their personal or political allegiances, many college students are seeing their experience on campus influenced by the Israel-Hamas war. Saltz: Parents can talk to their kids, but the talking needs to be more in the question format than in the lecture format. And so, people are having difficulty maintaining a friendship if they now somehow feel they’re not on the same team. Many of the kids out there doing the protests are not saying anything antisemitic. If so, I would advise you to seek some mental health care because it’s really hard to help your child if you’re undone.

Persons: Gail Saltz, Saltz, hasn’t, I’m, you’re, There’s, they’re, won’t, “, you’ve Organizations: CNN, Presbyterian Hospital Locations: Israel

☆ Bitcoin price may not retest this year's highs for another five months
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Tanaya Macheel | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +3 min

"It could take three to five months for bitcoin to re-test recent highs," H.C. Wainwright analyst Mike Colonnese told CNBC. BTC.CM= 3M mountain Bitcoin has fallen 11% this quarter Bitcoin miners offer high beta exposure to bitcoin and have historically outperformed it during bull cycles, he added. Colonnese also pointed out that corrections between 25% and 30% are "par for the course" for bitcoin, even in bull cycles. "Looking at previous price cycles, bitcoin has historically peaked between one to one and a half years after a halving event with the bull stage running longer in each subsequent cycle," Colonnese said. "Assuming a similar duration for this bull stage of the price cycle, bitcoin may not reach its cycle peak until October 2025," Colonnese added.

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☆ Use this script to ask about remote work in a job interview—it won't raise any red flags with your potential new boss
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Aditi Shrikant | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +1 min

Despite a global pandemic which forced millions of workers to do their jobs from home, some CEOs have made it clear they don't believe remote work is the future. Last year, Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg said in-person workers "get more done." Depending on where management stands on remote work, though, this could raise some red flags about you. The question could be interpreted as you having a poor work ethic, says Matt Abrahams, a Stanford University lecturer and communication expert. If you frame it correctly, though, you can get your answer and not set off any alarms in your potential manager's head.

Persons: Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Tesla, Matt Abrahams Organizations: Stanford University

☆ AI washing: A Microsoft VC's warning about dubious, and rising, corporate artificial intelligence claims
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Rachel Curry | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +6 min

Some are practicing something called "AI washing," which Securities and Exchange Commission chair Gary Gensler explained in a video includes "false claims to investors by those purporting to use those new technologies." In reality, what AI washing leads to is a breakdown of confidence between vendors and their consumers, enterprise partners and investors. Bates says so-called button-pushing applications are AI washing, too. "These prompts that are being sold as AI companies, they have to be maintained and monitored and adjusted in order to work." Stewart says even 80–90% gross profitability for a fully AI company with limited human intervention is standard.

Persons: they're, Gary Gensler, It's, it's, Michael Stewart, Timothy Bates, Bates, Toby Coulthard, Coulthard, Microsoft's, Stewart Organizations: Securities, Exchange, SEC, Inc, University of Michigan, Flint College of Innovation & Technology, Lenovo, General Motors

☆ This is my first Mother's Day without my mom. Instead of being sad, I will celebrate her life.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Bethany Kandel | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

Instead of being sad that she's not here this Mother's Day I will celebrate her life. AdvertisementThis Mother's Day is the first time in my 66 years of life that I have no mom. I used to feel bad on Mother's Day for friends who had lost theirs. AdvertisementAs a self-taught outsider artist, my mother's life was one giant treasure hunt. Her greatest joy would be to see me happy and celebrating Mother's Day with my own sons.

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☆ Appeals court upholds Trump White House aide Steve Bannon contempt of Congress conviction
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Dan Mangan | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +1 min

Steve Bannon, former adviser to Donald Trump, arrives to federal court in Washington, D.C., U.S., on Wednesday, March 16, 2022. A federal appeals court on Friday upheld the criminal contempt of Congress conviction of former Trump White House senior aide Steve Bannon for refusing to testify and provide documents to the House committee that investigated the Jan. 6, 2021, attack on the U.S. Capitol. Circuit Court of Appeals for the District of Columbia Circuit makes it more likely that Bannon will soon have to begin serving a sentence of four months in jail for his conviction of two counts of contempt of Congress. But Bannon could ask the full judicial line-up of the D.C. He also could ask the U.S. Supreme Court to take an appeal of Friday's ruling.

Persons: Steve Bannon, Donald Trump, Bannon, Peter Navarro Organizations: Washington , D.C, Trump White House, U.S . Capitol, U.S, Circuit, Appeals, District of Columbia Circuit, Supreme Locations: Washington ,, U.S

☆ He left his desk job in the US to run a food stall in Hong Kong. He earns more now — but plans to walk away from it soon.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Faye Bradley | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +9 min

Toby To Yan Choi left his accounting job in California to help his father run a food stall in Hong Kong. Dai pai dongs — Hong Kong's open-air stalls serving food with a no-frills approach — are disappearing. The number of dai pai dongs in all of Hong Kong has dwindled to just over 20, according to the Hong Kong Tourism Board. The braised white pepper pork hock is one of the signature dishes at Dai Lee Dai Pai Dong. AdvertisementHe's gotten married since moving to Hong Kong and plans to move back to the US if he and his wife have kids.

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☆ I've been living in Spain for 12 years. I've stopped dating locals because too much gets lost in translation.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Nicola Prentis | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

"Say something to me in Spanish," said my date in the small Catalan city where I've lived since 2016. It's an inevitable part of the first date scenario I've come to hate while dating in Spain. Navigating the apps with my level of Spanish is easy, and I can even manage whole dates. But it wasn't the first time I've been mocked for speaking Spanish in a supposedly romantic context. Debating something complex in Spanish is beyond my language level, but I also know I'll sound rude if I disagree using the blunt language tools I do have.

Persons: I've, It's, I'm, it's, I'd, There's, Nate Young, Marie Sklodowska, Young, Queen Mary , Organizations: Curie, University of Oslo, Queen Mary, Queen Mary , University of London Locations: Spain, Madrid, Barcelona, Mexican, Queen

☆ When my son got engaged, I was forced to take a backseat in his life. It was an adjustment for me, but it was worth it.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-10 | by ( Melissa Drake | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

Read previewOur immediate family has been small for most of my son's life — just the two of us. AdvertisementI wanted something different for my son and his familyWhile I'm still very privileged and have a front-row seat to my son's life, I don't take any of it for granted, nor does my son. I know I'm not entitled to be the leader in his life. It's interesting to let go of control and allow my son lead my position in his life. I couldn't ask for a better partner for my son, and I can't wait to see how life unfolds for them.

Persons: —, I've, I'm, he's, Johnathan, Stephanie, it's Organizations: Service, Business

☆ There's too much pressure for what Mother's Day should be. I let my family celebrate me however they want.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-09 | by ( Rebecca Hastings | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +3 min

Mother's Day used to stress me because I'd always end up disappointed. AdvertisementWhen I looked at this month's calendar, one day stood out: Mother's Day. Related storiesSo, instead of trying to manage Mother's Day, I chose to let my family celebrate me however they wanted to. Instead of planning the day or silently seething when things don't go my way, I let my family decide what to do. Letting go of pressure and disappointment to enjoy my family is more important than the idea of what Mother's Day should be.

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